The Beauty of Mixed Heritage
By: Aryana Mahasseni
I have grown up navigating the intersection of two rich and distinct cultures: living in Southern California with my mom’s American Minnesotan roots and my dad’s Iranian heritage. This dual identity has been a profound part of my life, shaping who I am and how I view the world.
Every year, my family travels to Minnesota to visit my mom’s family. There, I am surrounded by warm summer days on the lake, catching fireflies, and spending time with my very large extended family. I’ve always cherished these moments and the deep connection I have with my Minnesotan family. While I may feel less culturally connected to this side of my background and slightly out of place due to my darker Iranian features standing out among my blonde, blue-eyed relatives, my time there is filled with fun and love. My experiences with them remind me that family bonds transcend cultural differences.
On the other hand, my dad’s Iranian heritage is also a cornerstone of my identity. My dad immigrated to the United States from Tehran at the age of 16, the same age I am now. Growing up, he made sure that Farsi was spoken in our household. It wasn’t just a way to communicate with my grandparents or relatives during our yearly visits to Iran; it was a way to stay connected to a piece of myself. Learning the language taught me to appreciate being a part of mixed cultures and the importance of preserving traditions.
Iran has played an irreplaceable role in shaping my outlook on the world. Walking through the bustling bazaars of Tehran, I marveled at the vibrant colors of Persian rugs, the scent of saffron lingering in the air, and the handmade trinkets my mom and I found irresistible. Celebrating Nowruz, Persian New Year, with my family taught me the importance of maintaining traditions and keeping in touch with that aspect of myself. Weekly Farsi school had its challenges, but it helped me understand my heritage on a deeper level and I could not be more thankful for those experiences at this point in my life.
In addition to visiting Iran yearly, my upbringing has been shaped by a broader global perspective. Traveling has been a significant part of my life, and I have visited over 15 countries and been out of the United States more than 30 times. Each journey has exposed me to diverse cultures, languages, and ways of life, deepening my appreciation for both my Iranian and American roots. From wandering through ancient ruins in Europe to exploring busy markets in Asia, these experiences have taught me the value of curiosity and adaptability. Ultimately, while our backgrounds may differ, the valuable connections and similarities we share as humans remain regardless.
Lessons from My Heritage
My Iranian background has instilled in me values that continue to guide my life. Hospitality is a hallmark of Iranian culture, and it is something I have grown up immersed in. In Iran, guests are treated like royalty. I remember my grandmother’s constant insistence that I eat more, her hospitality a reflection of love and generosity. This cultural emphasis on kindness and care highlights the importance of treating others with respect and warmth.
Another lesson I’ve learned is the importance of resilience. My father’s journey from Tehran to America at such a young age was no small feat. His ability to adapt and thrive in a new country, while holding on to his culture, is a testament to perseverance. Like many immigrants worldwide, his experience taught me to appreciate the opportunities I have and to never give up in the face of adversity.
Finally, my Iranian roots have taught me to value community. Whether it’s sharing a meal with family or participating in traditions that bring people together, the sense of belonging is irreplaceable.
Bridging Two Worlds
Growing up with both American and Iranian influences has given me a deep appreciation for the distinct qualities of each culture. I’ve learned to embrace the values, traditions, and perspectives from both, recognizing how they complement each other. This blend of influences has shaped my worldview, and I find strength in the unique outlook my dual identity offers, allowing me to connect with a broader range of experiences and people.
Being Iranian American has taught me that identity isn’t about fitting neatly into one box. It’s about weaving together all pieces of your experiences, values, and heritage to create something uniquely your own. Whether I’m sharing a traditional Persian meal with my family or enjoying a summer barbeque on the lake, I carry both parts of my identity with pride. They’ve made me who I am, and they continue to shape the person I aspire to be.
Aryana Mahasseni is a high school student passionate about social justice, environmental issues, and exploring different cultures. Alongside her writing, she enjoys playing guitar and songwriting, often finding inspiration in her experiences. Aryana also cherishes spending time with friends and family and aims to use storytelling as a tool for advocacy, to inspire change, and to strengthen community bonds. Aryana is an ISSD graduate.
